Thursday, October 17, 2013

Unit 9:  Wrapping it Up:

Hello everyone.  Health and wellness professionals should develop psychologically, spirituality and physically.  Several opportunities open up once individuals have learned how to travel down the path towards integral health.  The first opportunity involves learning how to deal with mental health issues which if ignored can lead premature disease.  In addition, it opens up door of knowledge about how our minds and bodies interact with one another and this gift of integral health shows individuals how precious are lives are.  The most important element of integral health is the opportunity to appreciate all the unique gifts individuals posses which we take for granted daily because we are too busy to stop and acknowledge the simple things in life.  For this reason and many more health and wellness professionals need to experience this so they can share their excitement with their clients.

The areas that I need to develop are finding a way to keep a calm-abiding mind and ignoring the mental chatter that distracts me daily.  I also need to make time daily for relaxing.  I have a tremendous amount of stress in my home and I OFTEN allow myself to get drawn into it and I get depressed.  From there it only gets worse because my poor eating habits kick-in and then I get headaches and starting taking medicines for my headache.  I need to focuses on identifying  the destructive emotions that lead me to this place and replace my dysfunctional patters with healthy patterns.  I plan to spend more time walking alone and I have learned to meditate in my car before and after work.  I do this prior to entering the battleground at home and I prepare my mind so when I walk through the door I am not already stressed.

I have assessed by health status in each domain and spiritually I am strong.  I do not feel I need to work as hard on my spiritual growth as I do my physical and psychological growth.  I am weak in both of those areas because I am easily side-tracked and distracted and I can be doing all the right things and then one small incident occurs and I am completely off track. 

Goals that I have for myself in the Physical aspect involve both my children and myself.  Both of my children are dangerously overweight and not very active.  I plan to included them in more activities around the house like playing ball, encouraging them to walk or run.  I have been purchasing some really cool workout stuff that would involve them in weight training with me.  Spiritually I am encouraging my children to attend church with me and my husband just agreed to help me teach Confirmation classes at my church.  We now attend church together.  Psychologically I have set goals for my family and myself.  I found a family counselor that is going to work with us individually and as a family.  There are a lot of anger issues with both my children.  I have also included my youngest son in meditation practices.  He likes the visualization exercises more than any other. 

My personal goals are to keep working out, stay focused on my daily meditation and focus on daily breathing exercises.  I have no spiritual goals because I feel I am in a good place right now. 
I really liked the Loving-Kindness exercise because it reminds me to find the good in people and it gives me an opportunity to think about ways I go out of my way to extend kindness to others.  I also liked the visualization exercise because it gives me an opportunity to focus on my dad which is encouraging and inspiring.  This exercise gives me energy to work hard like my dad did and still continues to do for his family.

I plan to track my progress by referring to my progress checklist.  Every week I write down my goals for the week, things I want to accomplished and one thing I want to improve on.  At the end of the week I look over it and recreate my list again.  It helps me stay focused and when I accomplish things I feel so good about myself.

Cherie

6 comments:

  1. Cherie,

    I don't know if you remember but we had to assess our integral health in unit 3. I found it very interesting to go back and look at it after I had assessed myself this time. I was wondering if you did the same and if you possibly noticed any improvements or set backs from unit 3 to now? That right there is one way to assess if we are making progress or not. Even though I had made progress spiritually and phsychologically I have had a setback physically with my workouts. I just think it would be interesting if we all checked it out to see how far we have come or not! What do you think?

    Cindy

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  2. Cherie,
    The part of your paper that stick out to me is that you have considered you children to be part of your own well being. After much thought, I have come to see the relationship between the two and it is true that many parents will not attain integral health because of what the children are. By joining the wellness of your children with yours and also trying to get counseling together and attending church together, you are developing a support system that will keep everyone accountable to one another and that will be a big plus. This something I can implement in my own life as well as advice my clients to do the same. The loving-kindness seems to be quite a popular exercise but I believe it is something that have real effects and works. All the best in all your efforts and endeavors.
    David

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  3. Cherie,

    It is great to include your children in the quest for integral health. Not only do we have to take care of ourselves, but we also have a responsibility to our children to teach them about healthy choices. Plus, since we love our children, we are teaching them based on what is best for them.

    I really need to commit to a plan. I need to read my Bible and pray on a daily basis. It is so easy to let the day pass by without doing either, but I do not feel that I am thriving when I miss this important part of my plan towards flourishing. What do you find is the most vital aspect for you, like something you know you should be doing, but fail at it on a daily basis?

    Great blog, and I appreciate your honesty. Thanks!

    Amy L. Davis

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  4. Hi Cherie,
    I am the same way, it is hard for me to stop my "mind chattering" but I think with more practice I will be able to easier. I also like the Love Kindness mediation, there is too much hate and grudges in the world, we need to forgive and forget, as well as love the people around us, as hard as that may be sometimes.

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  5. I am like you in the aspect that I need to find time to relax every day. I currently am a stay at home, and I absolutely love it but it comes with cons as well. I use to work outside the home and even though it was work it was my escape. I love my children, but sometimes I just need me time. I need this time to relax and feel like something other than a mom. I am going to begin taking time once or twice a week and just take a nice hot bath to just have time to myself. I love my family and children, but I think it is only normal for people to need to have time for themselves as well. I wish you all the best of luck in your future.

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  6. I really like your idea of doing a weekly checklist for your goals. This way you can monitor where you are at and know if you need to make any immediate adjustments to your plans. I think that is a solid way to further develop your wellbeing and see if you are making progress. I'm not sure I would be able to keep up on a regular basis, but more power to you! I wish you the best of luck!

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